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You're not a bad parent. (you're just tired, confused, and Googling at midnight. same.)

You know something's up but nobody's giving you a straight answer. I'm a pediatric OT who translates the confusing stuff into things you can actually use. No jargon. Just coffee and honesty.

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why won't anyone explain this am I overthinking it is this normal I'm so tired the school keeps calling mornings are chaos nobody told me about this what even is OT I just need someone to get it please don't say "all kids do that" why won't anyone explain this am I overthinking it is this normal I'm so tired the school keeps calling mornings are chaos nobody told me about this what even is OT I just need someone to get it please don't say "all kids do that"

If this is you, hi. Welcome.

You found your people. Pull up a chair.

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"I dread every single transition."

Getting off screens. Starting homework. Leaving a friend's house. Going from weekend to Monday. You're not failing. Transitions are hard because they involve regulation, flexibility, and emotional load. That doesn't stop at age 12.

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"The school keeps flagging stuff and I don't know what to do."

Getting that email from the teacher hits different. You want to help but the advice is vague and the terminology is confusing. I'll translate.

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"I've Googled so much I've scared myself."

3am spiral? Yeah. The internet is full of worst-case-scenarios and clinical language. You need someone to just tell you what's actually going on. In normal words.

Rebekah

Hi. I'm Rebekah.

Occupational Therapist with raging ADHD and highly medicated by caffeine. Former graphic designer, published writer, barista, cleaner, and disability support worker. The coffee obsession now makes sense, right?

I became an OT as a mature-age student after years of watching therapists work with my two neurodivergent children. Some support changed our lives. Some missed the mark. That gap shaped the work I do now.

I also hold a Bachelor of Visual Arts and have training in expressive arts therapy, so I care about resources that really work and look good. Useful tools should feel clear, modern, and engaging — not like they were printed in 2003.

I've had a few unexpected detours along the way, which gave me perspective and a low tolerance for wasted time, poor systems, and advice that's hard to put into practice in the real world.

I've done many jobs and lived many chapters. Now they come together in one place.

Practical therapy. Creative thinking. Real-world understanding. Drop me a message to say hello!

— Rebekah ☕

Their brain isn't broken.
It's just under construction.

The part of your teen's brain that handles decisions, impulse control, and not losing it over the wrong type of bread? Still being built. Won't be done until around 25. This free guide explains what's actually going on in there — so you can stop taking it personally and start understanding it.